New Things

Aritzia, Athleta, and Amazon - oh my!  I did a bit of shopping for myself last week and so far I am happy with my purchases. I am a blogger but I am not an influencer and honestly I get a little sick of the people who are buying buying buying (and then probably returning returning returning). I asked one of these influencers one time how they have the opportunity to wear all of these clothes they are showing us in their daily lives and she said she is "obligated" to buy more than a normal person because she is an influencer and needs to make sure she has content for her followers. What a burden that must be! To consume more so others may consume as well, it's a bit disgusting isn't it? 

Don't get me wrong, I am a consumer as well and I like to buy nice things, but I do feel like there is a limit to that. I just went through my clothes as I switched over from winter to summer. I got rid of a bunch of things that were well loved, but now worn, outdated or do not fit. It was time to refresh some of my wardrobe so I placed some orders. 

Revive Poplin Dress - I have this already in a light green and it fits well so I thought it was good to get in black as well.

Archive Linen Shirt - I ordered this first in a large, but it was huge, so I returned it and got a small, so it's a more suitable size.

Breezy Tank - I got this in pink and black and I think I'll be wearing these a lot. They are comfortable and light.

Golf Skort - self explantory.

Golf Skort - This is from Amazon, and I rarely order clothes from there, but I thought I'd take a chance. It's a bit longer than I thought it would be but I like it.

And I'll spare you the photos, I also got some new bras. I have seen ads for these two brands on my Instagram for awhile so I took a chance. 

Honeylove Crossover Bra

Shapermint Truekind Bra

I just measured myself and used their size guides. They fit well and I am happy with them, although I think I prefer the Shapermint ones better. 

Have you bought anything lately?

Weekend Recap

 I went to the office on Friday and it was finally nice enough to eat my lunch outside. I tried a new place Bready  and enjoyed my chicken salad (and chocolate brioche bun later in the afternoon).

That evening Q had his first rep team practice. 

On Saturday we got to sleep in and then go for brunch at Yolks.

It was a bit chilly when we were walking home and then it started raining. But it did clear up by the time we were going golfing later in the afternoon. I actually forgot my phone at home so I had to get E to take some photos.

We ate our dinner on the patio and when we got home we watched Remarkably Bright Creatures. I did not read the book so I don’t know how it compares but the movie was excellent. And bonus it was filmed in Canada :)

Q had another baseball practice on Sunday morning and after that we hopped on the subway to get to Christie Pitts to watch the Toronto Maple Leafs Baseball team. (E was busy doing something so he met us there.)

It was a beautiful day and so many people out enjoying the game. We even saw some other people from High Park including Q’s house league coach. 

We wandered home after the game, stopping to get a box of Timbits so we could try out the new World Cup flavours, and then had a simple dinner at home. I watched the Martin Short documentary on Netflix. How fun would it be to hang out at his cottage back in the day with the crowd! (The kids go to camp on that same lake.)

Meanwhile Dave was in Myrtle Beach on a golf trip.

He got back on Monday morning. We went to Home Depot to get some construction materials for the backyard BBQ/pizza oven project, and plants. We all worked hard in the afternoon outside. It was so nice to be in the warm weather finally!

I had an iced capp from Tim's and it's amazing how it can remind me of summer in Halifax.  

We finished up our long weekend at our local social club for some fireworks. 

Friday Favourites

 Happy Friday! We have a long weekend here in Canada so it is a happy Friday for sure.

Earlier this week I shared on Instagram that Q made the rep baseball team for the summer. His coach made sure to call while I was sitting with Q so he got the news directly. He’s very excited, and so are we! Dave is an assistant coach and I’m the manager, we know we will get to hang out with some great families this summer (coincidently I wrote a post about how to make friends, see Here).

We had ordered this cool clothes for Q and gave it to him when he got the news he made the team.

New job means a new office view. I finally got downtown this week to pick up my keycard for the door. I will go down again today to meet someone in person and will plan to go down at least once a week going forward.

Dave is away on a golf trip this week. When he arrived they went to a local ball game. It looks very pleasant, and warmer than it has been here!!

Enjoying our dinner at the counter since it was just the three of us.

Hit the sea lion!! Are your kids doing this? 

Q had his spring concert at the school where the classes played string instruments they have been learning. 

They did very well. 

We were pretty excited with Varsho hit his walk off grand slam on Wednesday night. We were still watching although I wasn’t very confident they could come back and win. I was proven wrong!

Although Q has a couple of baseball practices, we pretty much have three open days without set plans. We have a few things we would like to do but also take advantage of some downtime. 

Linking up with Andrea and Erika.

Let's Look - Making Friends

 

Linking up with Shay and Erika for Let's Look.  Today we are talking about how to make friends, or how to make couple friends, more specifically.

I feel like I need to acknowledge that people you know and talk to don’t immediately translate into “friends” in the true sense of the word, but those acquaintances can become friends as time goes on.  Therefore, the first step is meeting people, and then maintaining some sort of connection with them over time. 

For us, many of the people we are meet are because of our kids’ activities.  We have met the parents of their friends at school, skiing, and baseball. Inevitably you keep running into these same people and sometimes there is some crossover between activities, or you run into them in the neighbourhood. 

It helps if you volunteer for various things - I have done pizza day and field trips at school, we help coach and manage the baseball teams, I will do the scoring at the baseball game, we help out with ski races, and all of these things increase interactions with other parents. 

Another place to meet friends is your neighbourhood, but the key is to go outside. When we first moved here, we would be out doing yard work, playing with the kids, cleaning the cars, or just going for a walk or bike ride, and that’s how we initially met so many people. Some are in similar places in their lives like us with kids, but some have younger or older kids or no kids, or are retired, but they can all become friends. It also helps that we host our annual Christmas drop in party where we invite all of the neighbours. It’s a good way to keep in touch with people, even if it’s only once a year. 

We have also met friends at the golf club. Golf is great because you can often be golfing with people you don’t know, but you’re forced to spend 2 to 4 hours together making small talk, and you can usually figure out if you seem to have things in common (other than golf) and then if you’re at a private club, you end up seeing the same people over and over and strike up a friendship. It doesn’t need to be golf, but find a hobby, join a club or a league, and frequent the same places, and you will find friends.

I have made good friends at work, but I find that was more common when I was younger with no kids. I had three or four ladies that were my age and we all had our first kid at the same time so that was a good way to make connections and hang out outside of the office. 

And then you can also keep in touch with people from high school or university like we have and although we don’t see them all the time, they are real friends.

Weekend Recap

I started out my weekend at the Blue Jays game. The giveaway was a Trey Yesavage jersey and I wanted one but I wasn’t sure what the lines would be like. I wasn’t able to head downtown until 4:30 so I was arriving at the ballpark around 5:20. I went one of the closest gates, no line, and saw they still had jerseys so I got one! Turned out they only had five left at that entrance so I was pretty lucky. I waited for my friends and wandered around watching the warm ups.

Views of a different ball field than I had been at earlier in the week watching Q, and a slight bit warmer! No hat and mittens required here!

Eve and Cindy were in town for the weekend, glad I could meet up with them for a game.

Really no bad seats at the Skydome. 

I spent my Saturday at the golf course. It was Ladies’ Opening Day so I met some friends for lunch below our 1:00 pm shotgun start. Then we had a dinner and I stayed into the later evening at the bar. It was a fun day! My team came in second place, and I won golf shoes in the raffle!

It was slightly warmer than it had been all week, and I got to wear short sleeve for most of the day. And lucky for us the rain held off until everyone was done.

My Mother’s Day included Q’s baseball game…

And a round of golf with E.  (Q had a baseball tryout so he and Dave were there)

It was a little slow so we had time to take these photos. I was wearing my new shoes.

I had some lovely gifts waiting for me when we all got home, including a jar full of 100 things that Q loves about me. He worked hard on this little project and I appreciated it.

And we made pizzas in the pizza oven. They turned out well.