Friday, November 29, 2024
Friday Favourites
Thursday, November 28, 2024
Monthly Musings
Wednesday, November 27, 2024
What's Up Wednesday
Tuesday, November 26, 2024
Weekend Recap
Monday, November 25, 2024
Preparing for Advent
Today is the first official day of the Advent season since it was Reign of Christ Sunday yesterday. There are two things that are guiding my feelings toward Advent and the lead up to Christmas this year. The first is something that Shay wrote on her blog a few weeks ago - it’s okay to say no to things and focus on the things that matter to your family. There are a few things that always make an appearance on our calendar - our own Christmas party that we host for friends and neighbours, brunch with Santa at the golf club, the Sunday School pageant, and Home Alone Night (watching the movie, ordering cheese pizza, and drinking Pepsi). We also have to watch all of our other favourite holiday movies at some point - The Grinch, Polar Express, White Christmas, The Holiday, Elf, Love Actually, The Family Stone, Muppets Christmas Carol, and the first Harry Potter. We also like to bake cookies, work on our puzzle, and drive around to look at lights. There are other things that we will do but if they don’t work out, it’s okay. It can be easy to get bogged down with other parties, concerts, dinners, etc. Rather than filling our calendar with those things, we will take them as they come.
On that same note, the other thing that is guiding me this year is that “these are the days”. I listen to the Flightless Bird podcast with David Farrier and new co-host Rob (Wobby Wob). They did an episode on death the other day and did a bit of a quiz (this is hard to follow but stay with me). Anyway, one of the questions was “if you could go back and live one day over again, what would it be?” David said a day when he was about 21 and had met the “love of his life” and he wanted to re-experience those days when everything was great before it went wrong. Good enough answer, and then Rob said he supposed it would have to be a day after both of his sons had been born (they are about 2 and 7) and just a day when they were hanging out at home. And David said, a bit wistfully, “you can do that anytime” as it is still happening. That’s like me, I get to live those wonderful days everyday right now. Yes, there are arguments, some mess, impatience, more meal planning (they want to eat dinner everyday!!), etc. but these are indeed the days. Even when I am feeling a bit overwhelmed by all of the things that need to get done, I will first remember I can say no to some of those things (see above), but also savour those moments of the everyday with my young family.
Friday, November 22, 2024
Friday Favourites
I think this may be the weekend to turn on the Christmas music, I haven't been able to do it yet, but we are going to bring out some decorations so it is time. A few years ago I shared this post of my favourite Christmas songs.