We have done the big party downtown (Halifax), house parties, and quiet nights at home with takeout and movies. All of them were good for what we wanted at the time. The one thing I have never had any interest in doing is going down to City Hall with the crowds of people, but to each their own. One year, it must have been 2010, Dave and I were married and living in Toronto, but E wasn't born yet. We went downtown to watch the World Juniors at Real Sports in the afternoon, and then we went home and Skyped Dave's cousins in New Brunswick and decided to do shots (eye roll) of Limoncello (double eye roll) as they did shots of Fireball (?). Needless to say we were in bed well before midnight. Fun times, right Adam and Amy?!!
I also wish you the best for a happy 2020. It's always a time of reflection and resolutions. But as long as you find the thing that makes you happy and then pursue it, that is all that's important. This is my favourite version of Auld Lang Syne, it was in the Sex and the City movie so you may recognize it too.