Thursday, October 1, 2026

July, August, September Books

 Recapping my books from the last few months, there were some good ones!

Yesteryear by Caro Claire Burke


This one seemed to be everywhere a few months ago and so I had to jump on that bandwagon. Although the author says it’s not, the main character is definitely inspired by Ballerina Farm’s Hannah Neeleman, a trad wife influencer. She lives on a farm with her husband and several children, creating social media content about how they live - making all of their food from scratch, home schooling their children, raising livestock, being a good Christian wife, etc. The instagram posts don’t show the modern appliances hidden off camera, the nannies and producers that are helping out, and the marriage and behaviour issues. (Am I talking about Ballerina Farm or the novel? There is a lot of overlap.). Then one day the main character in the novel wakes up and she is in a house with no electricity or running water, none of the conveniences of modern day. It’s like “you wanted to emulate a life from the olden days, well, here you go!”. While she tries to figure out how she got here, we go back to the years leading up to this moment. 
I don’t follow Ballerina Farm or any of the other trad wife accounts, but I am aware of them. As I am aware of many influencers that create so much content and can make a very good living doing so. I scroll on my phone and see all kinds of content so I’m contributing to it all, but I still don’t understand how it all works. We all want to put forward a good image of ourselves online, but when it doesn’t feel genuine, then I have a problem with it. 

Wild Dark Shore by Charlotte McConaghy


This novel takes place on an extremely remote island off the coast of Australia. A man and his three children are the stewards of the island that had formerly been used for research and a seed vault (a collection of every kind of seed that could restart agriculture in the event of a catastrophic global disaster). Things have changed though and they are planning to leave the island in a few months. A storm brings something unexpected to the shore and that’s when we join the story.
I knew absolutely nothing about this book when I picked it up, so much I was confused about where in the world they were at first. There is a mystery in the book but it wasn’t predictable at all. It was unlike any books I have read recently and I really liked it. 


The Chambermaid’s Key by Genevieve Graham


The story takes place in 1920s Toronto right after the Fairmont Royal York Hotel is built. It’s not called the Royal York in the book but that is the inspiration. The main character gets a job as a chambermaid, a good job for someone living in the Ward (a poor neighbourhood). She comes in contact with some mobsters. Then we skip ahead to present day where a young property inspector starts uncovering something fishy going on at the hotel, and finds some connections to the past.
I am a big fan of Ms. Graham’s books and they just keep getting better. I always appreciate the local Canadian settings and the Royal York is one of my favourite places in the city. This one kept me entertained and bonus, the cover is so pretty. I actually bought this book and then sent it to my mom to read.

My Friends by Fredrik Backman


At the beginning of this book we meet a foster girl who has run away from her foster home. She has a plan to break into an art auction to see a famous painting. She is caught and runs away, running into the artist in the back alley. They start spray painting the alley and the artist recognizes that she has talent. After a few things happen, the girl finds herself with the artist’s childhood friend. She hears stories about the summer when that famous painting was painted and the adventures the friends had together. The book toggles between present and past. 
Like most of Mr. Backman’s books an air of melancholy permeates the story. The moments between the friends are bittersweet, with a feeling that nothing is going to turn out, but interspersed with tender moments. I almost couldn’t get into it because I didn’t want to read a sad book, but there are enough lovely phrases and hope that kept me going and I ultimately liked it. 

I should mention I also tried reading Wolf Hall after hearing it recommended by a few people, but I could just not get into it. I usually try to push through but this time decided to put it down.  



Wednesday, September 30, 2026

What's Up Wednesday

 


What we’re eating this week…
Sunday - The Rec Room for Q’s birthday party
Monday - Out again for Q’s family birthday dinner
Tuesday - Mexican casserole
Wednesday - Sausage Pasta
Thursday - Leftovers
Friday - Baked Beans on Toast and Hot Dogs
Saturday - Golf course for me

What I’m reminiscing about…
With Q’s 10th birthday Yesterday so I am remembering when he was born of course.

What I’m loving…
Our new lawn. We put in some artificial turf and it has been a great addition. The kids can just go up there and play and no one looks like Pig Pen when they come back down. 


What I’m dreading…
It’s not “dreading” in the traditional meaning, but something that is really irking me is that every commercial seems to be sports betting or for GLP-1s. Since we watch a lot of sports we are bombarded by these ads. I guess I should be glad they aren’t allowed to advertise vapes.

What we’ve been up to…
Enjoying a busy fall. September started out with school and baseball playoffs, then it was Q’s birthday. Work also picked up with more people back from holidays and I’ve been going into the office more often. October is equally busy for us and then (dare I mention it?) Christmas prep starts in earnest after Halloween. 



What I’m working on…
I’m a little slow on doing this but I wanted to reach out to Q’s teacher sooner than later about getting some sort of homework system set up. They don’t like to give homework but we think it would benefit Q to have some scholastic activity everyday. Dave and I have tried doing this ourselves but we really need the support of the teacher to assign something and keep us all accountable. 

What I’m excited about…
My trip to London and Edinburgh in November. I’m going with the friends that I travel with. We have our hotels and flights booked. Our plans are to go to the Christmas markets, catch a soccer football game, shop, and eat :)

What I’m watching/reading…
I’m still rewatching The Summer I Turned Pretty. Dave and I are watching The Gentlemen.


I will do my book review for my recent reads tomorrow. Nothing on the go right now, I need to get to the library this week.

What I’m listening to…
My Fall Playlist. I made it a few years ago and have added a few more songs this year: Welcome Home Son by Radical Face, and Out of the Woods by Taylor Swift.  They have a fall feel too.

What I’m wearing…
My Toronto Maple Leafs sweatshirt! We love the Blue Jays but with their season over we are switching gears to hockey (and later Raptors basketball).


What I’m doing this weekend…
Golfing in the Ladies Closing and hosting Q’s rep baseball team for our end of year party.

What I’m looking forward to next month…
A work trip to BC, Thanksgiving, E’s birthday, Halloween, and the leaves changing colour

What else is new…
I can't think of anything that wasn't covered above!




Tuesday, September 29, 2026

Weekend Recap

I've got two posts for you today. A Birthday post for Q and this weekend recap. The weekend was spent celebrating Q, starting with a Blue Jays game on Friday night. 


We got there early to get in line for the Delgado windbreaker giveaway.



Windbreaker looks great!




Corndog! 


Watching Soriano and Kirk warm up in the bullpen.



Trying to get on the big screen between innings. He was unsuccessful.

But the usher in our section took pity on him and gave him of the warm up balls that Lukes had thrown up into the stands earlier.
And check out the new hat, Dave found this in the end of season "garage sale" happening at the Dome, along with an all white one.

The Blue Jays pulled out a win with some runs in the 7th and we got to see Louie Varland come out to finish off the 9th.

On Saturday morning I was up early to go for a run, we watched the F1 race, and then Dave headed out to golf in the men's closing day tournament. I tackled Q's birthday cupcakes. Not bad!



We tided up the house, and Q went out to practice for his cross country race. Then I found him like this late in the afternoon. 

I got dressed up, had some people over for a drink, Dave came home from golf, and we all headed up to the cocktail party at our neighbourhood social club. We had a good time but I will say that it wasn't as good as last year, the DJ didn't really seem interested in playing the songs we wanted to hear and he kept cutting them off halfway through. We also forgot to get a good photo of us dressed up. 

On Sunday we had Q's birthday party.  His friends were dropped off at our house.

Then we got on the subway and the UP train go downtown.

We had the party at the Roundhouse Rec Room. The kids get credits for the arcade and a meal. 



Then the reverse journey back home.


The kids played around in the backyard and then we had cupcakes and Q opened his gifts.


It was a busy and fun day! You can probably guess that we were all ready for bed early on Sunday night. 



Happy 10th Birthday Q!

Our little Quinny is a big 10 years old today! Q is just a great kid. Something I have really noticed this past year is how hard he works at things, even when they are hard. He wants to do well and he puts in the time and effort to get better. For things like baseball, this was his first year hitting a live pitch, pitching, stealing bases, learning signs, etc. and he thrived. He's into every play, puts in the reps at practice, and is never dragging his feet to get out on the field. Even striking out or getting thrown out stealing, he maturely moves on doesn't let it upset him for too long.

For things like reading and school work, his teachers tell us how hard he works, those things come more slowly than baseball, but he stays with and sees the progress. We are proud of him. Even when he doesn't want to go to piano lessons (because he would rather keep playing with his friends), he keeps at it, and has been doing a good job of practicing at home over the past month (with prompting of course). 

He has a great time with his friends and is always ready to join in the fun. He loves bright colours, all of the sports and TV that we like, singing along to songs in the car, and doing things together as a family. 

A few photos of Q from the past year show his various interests and a peek at his personality. And the annual birthday quiz is at the bottom. And you can see how we spent the weekend celebrating him in my Weekend Recap  




























Favourite Colour

Yellow


Favourite Stuffed Animal

Guy, Wicket, and Ice Cream


Favourite Thing to Sleep With

Guy


Favourite Fruit

Strawberries


Favourite Thing to Eat for Breakfast

Waffles with whipped cream and sprinkles


Favourite Thing to Eat for Lunch

Kraft Dinner


Supper

Mexican Casserole, Tacos, Dad’s Pizza


Favourite Dessert

Ice Cream


Favourite Drink

Sprite


Favourite Animal

Dog


Favourite Book

Big Nate


Favourite Song

No


Favourite Video Game

The Show


Favourite Sport

Baseball


Favourite TV Show

Blue Jays Way (Sportsnet Doc)


Favourite Movie

End Game


Favourite Thing to do Outside

Play baseball


Best Friend

Jackson


Favourite F1 Driver

Norris and Verstappen


What do you want to be when you grow up?

Baseball Player


Anything else to share

 Baseball