On this month's instalment of Let's Look we are looking at our Love Language. I have known about these five love languages (quality time, physical touch, acts of service, receiving gifts, and words of affirmation) but never read the book or did the quiz. I did finally do the quiz last week and it confirmed what I already knew. My top love language is acts of service. When I think about what I like most, it is when something is taken off my plate and looked after for me. It can also translate into something as simple as a coffee being brought to me, or a suggestion that we go out for dinner (in the before times of course, now that just means ordering food). It also means that I am happy to have Dave look after certain things like our finances and budget, house renovations, and other things.
Dave brought me a coffee yesterday afternoon when he was running errands, the best!
Dave's love languages is physical touch and quality time. He did not do the quiz, but I know that's what they are. Interestingly those two ranked low on my list of priorities. This can be a challenge to be married to someone opposite to you, but I think we mostly make it work.